Have you ever wondered what kind of first impression you give? And, are you good and quick at reading others right away? I mean, you know the old saying, you never get a second chance to make a first impression, blah blah blah. We all grew up with that somewhat depressing adage, more as it relates to landing a job than anything else, but obviously it applies to dating, too.
According to a survey by Match.com, more than half of all singles can tell within 15 MINUTES if a date isn’t going well.
Yikes. That’s fast. You know what I’m thinking within the first 15 minutes of meeting someone new?
Hmm, this is a nice place. (Or not.)
What am I ordering? I’m STARVING!
Should I go with appetizers and a meal? Or just one big meal? I’m hungry. (Did I mention I like eating?)
Am I asking enough questions?
Wow, whatever he ordered sounded good. Hmm…should I change my order?
Was that a pop culture reference? Crap, it sounds familiar. Do I pretend I got it or ask what that meant?
Now, granted I’ve mentioned before that I suck at conventional dating…the meet-today, date-tomorrow type of thing. So, if I only get 15 minutes, I’d better work on my first approach. (Or, my non-approach?)
Obviously everyone is looking for different things, not just in a potential mate but also the type of relationship they’re seeking at any given time. But with over 50% of singles saying they can tell where the date is headed within just a quarter of an hour (which isn’t even enough time for the appetizers to come out!), it begs the question: what does 15 minutes really tell you? Is that really all it takes? Maybe I should stop focusing so much on the food…